As promised, today I will reveal my #4 of strengths finder! This one may surprise some of you!
Empathy
Sense other's emotions. Feel their feelings as your own. Share their perspective. Not necessarily agree with everyone's perspective. Not necessarily feel pity (that's sympathy, not empathy.) Not necessarily condone everyone's choices, but understands. Instinctive ability to understand. Hear the unvoiced questions. Anticipate the need. Find the right words and tone. Help people find words to express their feelings. Other people are drawn to you.
Kind of a weird one to point out about yourself, but it seems true enough. This is why I usually enjoy listening more than talking.
Lesson of the day: empathy is not sympathy.
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